You've taken the huge step of leaving, now it's time to focus on understanding your legal rights and building the next stage of your life with confidence. We give you clear and accessible legal information, the laws protecting your rights and how to represent your self in family court if you choose to. The flowchart will guide you through your situation and signpost you to the most appropriate section of our website or specialist services when you need them.
You’ve made the first move. We’re here to help you make the rest.
Even if your ex has Parental Responsibility, under the law, they cannot just take your child(ren) without your agreement.
Under the Children Act 1989 (Section 8) you can apply for a Prohibited Steps Order (PSO) to prevent specific actions, such as removing your child(ren) from your care or school without permission. If the situation is urgent, call the police on 999.
Taking a child out of the country without the necessary permission is a serious criminal offence under the Child Abduction Act 1984 , if your ex has taken your child(ren) to another country please follow these steps:
1. Call the police.
2.Call the Foreign, Commonwealth & Development Office to report the incident.
3. Call Reunite, a charity specialising in child abduction cases.
The Family Law Act 1996 (Section 33) says that an Occupation Order can give you temporary right of entry or exclude the other person in order to make your house safe to enter. You can find a guide on how to fill out this form in our 'Court Forms section:
The Family Law Act 1996 (Section 42) says that you and your children have the right to be protected from any 'molestation' by your ex partner. It does not have to be a physical 'molestation' and can include threats by social media, verbal harassment, pestering and intimidation.
You can find a guide on how to fill out the form for a Non Molestation Order here:
Having the right support can make a big difference to your confidence and outcome. Phoenix guides you through different routes, and we’ll direct you to the right services that can meet any accessibility, language, or support needs you’ve identified. Click below to find out more.
The legal process can feel like a maze, full of steps that aren't always explained clearly. Our 'Family Court Guide' will take you through the process, from first application, to explaining the hearings, safeguarding checks and final decisions. Click below for more.
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